"Protecting
God’s Children"
31st
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in Ord. Time October 30, 2005
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In the first reading today, God, speaking through His prophet Malachi,
speaks to the priests and says to them, You have turned aside from the
way I have taught you, and you have led many astray by your
instructions. Therefore, I have made you contemptible before the
people. Never before have these words been so true as they are now.
What I have to say today is a tragedy, but it needs to be said because
once again the bishops of the United States are trying to cause a
scandal and to destroy our children. Parents need to be aware of what
is going on.
Back in 2002, after the bishops very hastily put together something
that they call Protecting God’s
Children, the charter for protecting
children from sexual abusers, one of the things that was put in there,
and this is something that is certainly laudatory, is that they wanted
to raise awareness of child sexual abuse in all of the dioceses of the
United States. Well, they have just recently interpreted their document
to determine that that means every single diocese in the United States
is absolutely required to have programs that are going to raise this
awareness. Again, by itself that sounds very good; however, there are
two different elements to this thing.
The first part of it is something that all employees, as well as all
volunteers who would work with children in any capacity, are required
to take. We just did that last week under obedience from the
archbishop, and what I can tell you is the program by itself was
worthless enough.
It was fairly innocuous, didn’t say much, except for
two points that really stuck out. Number one, they were presenting a
series of myths regarding sexual abuse.
One of the myths that they put
up there was that homosexuals are more likely to commit child sexual
abuse than heterosexuals. The reason they put that up there is because
if you look at the numbers in America, first of all, remembering that
only 2% of people in America call themselves homosexual (98% do not),
they look at the numbers and they say, “Look, these 98% of the people
committed more crimes of sexual abuse than these 2%.”
That is true
enough. However, if you look at the ratio of sex abuse crimes committed
by the 2% as opposed to the 98%, there is no comparison. In fact, in
the Church more than 85% of all the sexual abuse cases that have been
pressed or come forward are homosexual. So it is a deceptive lie.
Then
they went on to say something else which really struck a chord in me;
it said, “Parents must monitor all
programs that their children would
be involved in.” Well, I couldn’t agree more, except that the program
the bishops are forcing upon our children the parents are not allowed
to monitor.
That is the reason why I am here to speak against this,
because you need to know for the sake of your children what is going
on.
First of all, the bishops hired a woman by the name of Teresa
Kettelkamp to be the head of this Protecting God’s Children
program.
Ms. Kettelkamp has affiliations with some pro-abortion movements and
organizations–the Feminist Majority, for instance. Ms. Kettelkamp
claims that she is not pro-abortion, but at the same time she also
claimed that she has never heard of or met a woman named Eleanor Smeal,
who is the head of the Feminist Majority.
But it is very interesting
that if you looked on their website, Ms. Kettelkamp was on an advisory
board for an arm of that particular organization, and she also received
an award from that organization that is called the “Breaking the Glass
Ceiling Award.” That is annually given by Eleanor Smeal at a
banquet.
So unless Ms. Smeal was sick or something that night, there is no
possible way that Ms. Kettelkamp could not have known who she was and
she certainly cannot claim that she has never met her.
This woman recently sent out a memo to every bishop in the country. In
that memo she said that every single child in a Catholic school
setting, whether that be the regular school or CCD, is required to take
a “Safe Touch Program.”
Now, mind you, this starts in
kindergarten.
There are only two groups of children who do not have to take it:
number one, children who have had a similar program in a public school
(Since when do we teach regarding sexuality exactly what they teach in
the public school about sexuality?); and number two, the parents who
will sign a form for the insurance company to opt out of this hideous
program. Even if you decide to opt your children out of the program, of
course they are going to come back into the classroom with a bunch of
kids who have just been through the program and they are going to be
affected by it anyway.
But the reason why Ms. Kettelkamp
tells us that
every child in the Catholic schools is absolutely required to take this
is because we cannot trust parents to teach their children these
things
because we know, she says, that some child abuse takes place in the
home.
Isn’t it interesting that the reason this unfortunate thing was
even started is because of all the child sexual abuse that has taken
place in the Church, yet we are going to say that because a few
occasions of child sexual abuse take place in the home we therefore are
going to vilify all parents and we are going to say that we cannot
trust parents to teach their kids. But
we in the Church–who have
scandalized the whole world by what is going on–we can trust ourselves
to teach our children what is good for them.
Well, I recently had an opportunity, much to my chagrin, to be able to
see one of the books. This by itself was pretty astounding because as a
parent if you want to monitor this program they will not let you. In
the dioceses where such programs have been implemented, parents who
have objected just tend to get pushed aside. If they continue to press
then they show them a marketing book. Of course, they took everything
offensive out of that particular book so the parents can look at that.
And if you continue to push, reluctantly they will allow you to sit
down in a principal’s office and look at the book that your
five-year-old is looking at. I got to look at that book and it was
disgusting.
Keep in mind also before I say anything else that a number
of the supplementary materials on the bishop’s list of books that the
children should be looking at are
approved by Planned Parenthood. At
least four of the people on the Board of Directors for this program
that we are being required to take that they call VIRTUS, which
interestingly is a word that means “truth,” have some very, very unfortunate affiliations
with Planned Parenthood organizations, or
Planned Parenthood affiliated organizations, or SIECUS, which is a
radical feminist pro-abortion group. Yet these are the ones who are
telling us what our kids ought to be looking at.
In this particular book, which I will spare you the details, it began
by having our five-year-old children, after looking at a line drawing
of a bunch of nude people, turn the page and they have anatomically
correct names for all of the genitalia and the children are to repeat
these out loud three times. These are five-year-olds. I had to go back
and call a friend of mine who is a nurse and say, “Can you tell me what
this word means?
I’ve never heard it before.” But our five-year-olds
are supposed to be repeating it. They claim that this is not a sex-ed
course, but rather they say, “This is
a Safe Touch course.”
In one of
the books, after repeating all of the vulgar words as well other
things, the children then are to draw pictures on a silhouette of
various body parts, although it says, “Not the private ones.” They just
repeat the words for the private parts, but they don’t have to draw
those.
These things are nothing short of disgusting, and, if I may say, they
completely violate the teaching of the Roman Catholic Church.
Let me
read to you from Paragraph No. 78 of the Vatican document called The
Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality:
“It can be
said that a child is in
the stage described in John Paul
II’s words as ‘the years of innocence’ from about five years of age
until puberty–the beginning of which can be set at the first signs of
changes in the boy or girl’s body (the visible effect of an increased
production of sexual hormones).
This
period of tranquility and
serenity
must never be disturbed by unnecessary information about sex. During
those years, before any physical sexual development is evident, it is
normal for the child’s interests to turn to other aspects of life. The
rudimentary instinctive sexuality of very small children has
disappeared. Boys and girls of this age are not particularly interested
in sexual problems, and they prefer to associate with children of their
own sex. So as not to disturb this important natural phase of growth,
parents will recognize that prudent formation in chaste love during
this period should be indirect, in preparation for puberty, when direct
information will be necessary.”
The Church is very clear on a couple of points: number one, that during
the innocent years of a child’s life they are not to be assailed with
all kinds of information regarding sexuality; number two, that it is
not for a Catholic school to be teaching this filth. It is for
parents
to teach sexuality to their children, not for us to try to indoctrinate
children in some Planned Parenthood idea of what sexuality is supposed
to be. The bishops’ program has gone directly against what the Catholic
Church teaches regarding sexuality itself. It makes it entirely base
and disgusting rather than something which is exalted, holy, and
beautiful.
In this program that we had to go through, I raised my hand and pointed
out a few of these things. The man who was facilitating it did a
reasonable enough job, other than the fact that he did not even know
the name of the program; but beyond that, when I asked the questions,
he refused to answer them and he just kept saying, “This program is
only for adults,” that is, the program we were taking as adults.
When I
said, “I know that. I’m talking about
the one that is being forced on
the children in school,” he kept saying, “No, this program is
only for
adults.” Then when finally pushed, he said, “No, it’s up to each
individual parish to decide whether or not they are going to have this
program, and even from there it is up to the individual teacher to
decide what words to use that would be appropriate to the children.” That is directly contrary
to what Ms. Kettelkamp has told the bishops.
Beyond that, thanks be to God, the pastor of this parish stood up and
very courageously said in front of everybody, “This program will not be
implemented in the Saint Agnes School.” Thanks be to God, at least we
will not have to worry about it here, but you need to tell your friends
because it will be implemented in almost every school throughout the
United States.
In case you think that I am speaking completely out of turn, I am going
to read to you a few questions about this program that Bishop Robert
Vasa of Baker, Oregon has written. Bishop Vasa is a very interesting
man because in this case he is a
member of the Bishop’s Committee on
Protecting God’s Children. So this is not just some renegade
bishop out
there who thinks this is stupid. This is somebody who is a member of
their own committee and he is refusing to allow this program to be
implemented in his diocese. Let me read to you the questions that
Bishop Vasa asked:
“Are such
programs effective? Do
such programs impose an unduly
burdensome responsibility on very young children to protect themselves
rather than insisting that parents take such training and take on the
primary responsibility for protecting their children? Where do these
programs come from?
Is it true that Planned Parenthood
has a hand in or
at least a huge influence on many of them? Is it true that other
groups, actively promoting early sexual activity for children, promote
these programs in association with their own perverse agendas? Do such
programs involve, even tangentially, the sexualization of children,
which is precisely a part of the societal evil we are striving to
combat?
Does such a program invade the Church-guaranteed right of
parents over the education of their children in sexual matters? Do I
have the right to mandate such programs and demand that parents sign a
document proving that they choose to exercise their right not to have
their child involved? Do such
programs introduce children to
sex-related issues at age-inappropriate times? Would such
programs
generate a fruitful spiritual harvest? Would unsatisfactory answers to
any of the questions above give sufficient reason to resist such
programs?”
Then he goes on to say:
“There are
many concerned parents
who have indicated to me that the
answers to all of these questions are unsatisfactory. If this is true,
do these multiple problematic answers provide sufficient reason to
resist the charter interpretation? At very least, even the possible
unsatisfactory answers to any of the questions above leaves me
unwilling and possibly even unable to expose the children of the
diocese to harm under the guise of trying to protect them from harm.”
That, thanks be to God, is a man who has his head screwed on straight.
When we are making a five-year-old child responsible for his or her own
protection rather than the parents being responsible for that, when we
are taking away the God-given right of parents to teach their children
regarding sexuality and taking it on ourselves, when we are telling
parents to monitor the program but not allowing them to do so, there is
something seriously wrong with this program.
It is time that parents
stand up, plant their feet firmly on the ground, and say, “No.” This is
especially necessary for the fathers because it is your job especially
to protect your children. You cannot allow them to be brainwashed and
to be violated by things that are inappropriate for these little
children to hear and to see. This is not what the Church is supposed to
be doing, and yet this is being forced down the throat of every single
child who has any affiliation with a Catholic school in this country.
It is time that we stand up and simply say, “NO.”
* This text was transcribed from the audio recording with minimal
editing.
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